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Medical Wishes

Healthcare Directives — Your Voice In The Room

A healthcare directive puts your treatment preferences and the people you trust to speak for you in writing, separate from your financial affairs. It is how you stay part of the conversation about your own care, even when you cannot speak for yourself.

Who It May Fit

Who A Healthcare Directive May Fit

  • Any adult who wants to choose who speaks for them on medical decisions
  • People with specific wishes about treatment, life support, or end-of-life care
  • Families planning for an aging parent's care alongside their own
  • Anyone who wants their medical wishes documented before a crisis

Preparation Checklist

What To Consider Before Documenting Your Wishes

  • Who you trust to make medical decisions for you, and a backup
  • Your wishes about life support, feeding tubes, or prolonged treatment
  • Whether you would want comfort or palliative care prioritized
  • Any specific treatments you would accept or refuse
  • How your agent and close family feel about being part of these decisions
  • Whether your state's form allows additional personal instructions
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Scope & Considerations

Medical Wishes, Separate From Financial Authority

A healthcare directive usually combines two things: a living will, which describes the kinds of treatment you would or would not want under certain circumstances, and a healthcare power of attorney, which names the person you trust to make medical decisions for you when you cannot.

It is separate from a financial power of attorney — the person handling your money is not necessarily the right person to make your medical decisions, and vice versa. We talk through your values, your preferences, and the people you trust, and put them in a form the hospitals and providers in your state will recognize.

Practical Steps

Putting Your Medical Wishes In Writing

Talk Through Your Values And Wishes

We discuss what matters to you in serious or end-of-life situations — not just legal forms, but the choices behind them.

Choose Your Healthcare Agent

You name who you trust to make decisions for you, plus a backup, and we make sure they understand what you are asking of them.

Document And Sign

We write your preferences into a directive that meets your state's requirements for signing, witnesses, and acceptance by providers.

Make It Reachable When Needed

A directive only helps if it can be found. We talk about copies, your agent, and your medical records so it is there when it matters.
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Practical Guidance

Making Your Wishes Easy To Find

A healthcare directive only speaks for you if the right people can find it and it still reflects your wishes. Conversations with your chosen agent, current accessible copies, and communication with your providers are what make it usable.

We help you talk through your preferences with the person you name, keep current copies where they can be reached, and set a reminder to revisit them under your state's requirements — separate from any financial authority.

Talk With Your Agent

Make sure the person you name understands your values and the decisions you are asking them to make.

Keep It Reachable

Store current copies where your agent and providers can find them, and update them when your wishes change.

Review Under State Rules

Revisit your directive on a set schedule and after state requirements or your care preferences change.

Questions & Answers

Common Questions About Healthcare Directives

A Thoughtful Next Step

Ready To Talk Through Healthcare Directives?

Start with a conversation about your priorities and the questions you want to clarify. We will help you see how this fits the rest of your plan — and what can wait.

Educational, not individualized advice

The information on this site is general educational material, not individualized legal or tax advice, and no plan avoids all probate, taxes, or creditors. Estate and trust law varies by state; consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.